It’s a great way to encourage them to give you more of that thing, and also gives your sexual play the added edge of becoming more of a multi-sensory experience. Just like sex itself, dirty talk is something that needs to be calibrated to whoever is receiving it. Maybe something that you qualify as ‘dirty talk’ is something the other person might find offensive, silly, or straight up insane, and vice versa.
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You also need to know that dirty talk should never be relegated to just the bedroom. Using these dirty phrases throughout the day or sexting him when he’s in the middle of his work day is just as important as using them mid-coitus. But if you want to take it to the next level, try talking to your partner about what sort of words, phrases, and tones turn each of you on. While this may sound clinical, it doesn’t have to be. Depending on the way you set up the conversation, talking about sexy talk can pretty easily lead to actual sexy talking, so it’s a great form of foreplay. That organ has a lot to process during a sexual experience.
- Dr. Tara has her clients create a positive sexual mantra, and then say it to themselves each day.
- Ask your partner what they’ve always fantasized about, and then pick a time to bring it to life.
- Respecting our partners’ boundaries (and making sure our partners respect our own) is an important part of healthy sex.
- In this case, ask outright if they’d like to continue.
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Seduction can begin weeks before over text, and lead right up to a teasing moment of foreplay, stating your designs on your partner’s body. Present-tense narration is a simple and surprisingly powerful way to transform language into a sort of vibrator for your mind, enhancing whatever you and your partner are already enjoying. And the check-in is a way to get more mileage out of your awesome sex by sending an aftercare reminder, bringing you back into the moment with the simplest sentence. When delving into dirty talk, Litner suggests going slow. Instead of diving right in, start sprinkling in some sexy talk here and there to get comfortable with it. From there, you can gauge what feels right for you and your partner.
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Mix up a few different approaches and see what works best. Praise works really well during moments of intimacy so consider lines like these. If user-submitted stories (not to mention free!) are more your jam, check out Literotica or Archive of Our Own—if fan-fiction is more your style. If you are doing a role play, these incorporated props can be used here too.
“Because dirty talk can increase arousal, it can also make an orgasm more intense,” says Buehler. So if you’re ready to add some naughty phrases to your arousal arsenal, ahead, sex experts explain exactly how to talk dirty and offer some scripts to get you started. In addition to verbal cues, she also highly recommends that people be on the lookout for non-verbal cues too, as these can be vital to gauge the comfort levels of someone. “Be clear of the line between playful nudging and coercion. Never cross the line into coercion-even in dirty talk — do not confuse that with coercion or sexual power play that is clearly asked for and consented as a part of the dirty talk scene,” Hauser states. If you’re looking for ways to turn up the heat in the bedroom, dirty talk is a foolproof method.
- Nicoletta Heidgger, a sexologist and host of the Sluts and Scholars podcast, also suggests reading or listening to erotica to get some inspiration.
- Say something like, “you are so sexy to me,” and go from there.
- But once you’re there, “I need you right now,” works really well.
Keep scrolling for 24 examples of how to talk dirty with your partner. Of course, the reaction we hope for when we start talking dirty to a partner is shock and delight. But while some couples love the idea of it, others may struggle with stepping outside their comfort zone. Make sure you communicate how you feel about it while in a safe space emotionally with your significant other. If literature and audio aren’t your thing, you can also simply turn to your favorite movies or TV shows for inspiration. Just fast-forward to your favorite sex scenes and pull a few ideas from there to bring into your own dirty talk and play.
In sex as in the rest of life, everyone loves to be flattered. So think about what words make you feel great about your sexuality. Maybe you like to be nasty or filthy on occasion, or maybe you like to be told you’re soft and sweet (hey, you can be both!). Think of words that enhance your self-love — juicy, hot, tight, strong, cute, smooth — and enthusiastically inquire about your partner’s faves, too. Communication is at the heart of every sexual connection. If you’ve never engaged in dirty talk with your partner before, you may not know how they feel about it.
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This is where the flirting gets more specifically sexual. If foreplay is a new concept to you, start by reading our Foreplay all Day Long post or our Fun Foreplay post for more specific ideas! For our purposes here, foreplay is the part of dirty talk where you start exploring sexually. Consider what things you have done or want to do sexually that really get you going. Think them through on your own, and then when you’re comfortable message or tell your spouse what they do that’s sexy!
